How do we truly embrace forgiveness in our lives? Are we willing to extend the same grace we've received from God to those who have hurt us? Join us as we explore the powerful parable in Matthew 18 that challenges our understanding of mercy and compassion. Let's dive in together!
Prayer Prompts
Use these prompts to guide your prayer time as we prepare our hearts for Sunday.
Lord, we thank You for settling our accounts and for the grace You extend to us daily; help us to recognize the weight of our debt and to appreciate the depth of Your forgiveness, so that we may live in the light of Your mercy and share that same grace with others.
As we prepare our hearts for worship, we ask You to soften our spirits and make us willing to be patient with those who have hurt us; help us to see them through Your eyes, that we may open the door to forgiveness and healing in our relationships.
Welcome to the Sunday setup. This is our
time each Thursday at 2 o'clock where we
digitally gather together as a church
family to pray through a piece of
scripture that we'll be studying this
week in order to prepare our hearts for
what God has. This Sunday we'll be
diving into Matthew 18 looking at verse
21. And we're continuing on in our
series through the parables of Christ
and looking at what does Jesus teach
through these little stories that reveal
these secrets of the kingdom. And in
verse 21, we dive into the story and it
says, "Then Peter approached him being
Jesus and asked,"Lord, how many times
must I forgive my brother or sister who
sins against me?" "As many as seven
times." I tell you, not as many as
seven, Jesus replied, but 70 times
seven. For this reason, the kingdom of
heaven can be compared to a king who
wanted to settle accounts with his
servants. When he began to settle
accounts, one who owed 10,000 talents
was brought before him. Since he did not
have the money to pay it back, his
master commanded that he, his wife, and
his children, and everything he had be
sold to pay the debt. At this, the
servant fell face down before him and
said, "Be patient with me, and I will
pay you everything." Then the master of
that servant had compassion. He released
him, and he forgave him the loan. That
servant went out and found one of his
fellow servants who owed him 100 dinari.
He grabbed him, started choking him and
said, "Pay what you owe." At this, his
fellow servant fell face down and began
begging him, "Be patient with me, and I
will pay you back." But he wasn't
willing. Instead, he went and he threw
him in a prison and he could pay what he
was owed. When the other servants saw
what had taken place, they were deeply
distressed. And they went and reported
to their master everything that had
happened. Then after he had summoned
him, his master said to him, "You wicked
servant, I forgave you all the debt
because you begged me. Shouldn't you
have also had mercy on your fellow
servant? As I had mercy on you?" And
because he was angry, his master handed
him over to the jailers to be tortured
until he could pay everything that was
owed. So also my heavenly father will do
to you, unless every one of you forgives
his brother or sister from your heart.
In this passage, what we're going to see
is at the start and the end, it really
deals with this topic of forgiveness and
grace that we receive from God and we
pass on other people. But as we begin in
here, I want us to just get our mindset
right of the God we have and then the
people around us. And I first want to
start and I I'd love this near the
beginning of this. Jesus starts in verse
23 and he says the kingdom is compared
to a king who wanted to settle accounts.
And we think of our God, our king. He
doesn't want us to sit in our sin. He
wants to settle the accounts of our
lives. He wants to settle the unrest
that is in us. And let this be our first
prayer prompt is Lord,
thank you for settling blank.
Maybe thank you for settling my sin in
the price that is paid. Thank you for
settling my anxiety. Thank you for
settling my depression. Thank you for
settling blank in my life. Think of how
God pursues you. He's not okay with the
brokenness that you are in, but he wants
to make it whole. Pray those prayers to
our God.
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Lord, thank you that you are willing to
step down into our messiness.
Lord, to not
just pursue judgment with us when it is
the right thing to do. But Lord, instead
you cover our sin. You settle our
accounts. You pay the debt that we
cannot pay. And Lord, we are not often
thankful enough for how big our debt is
to you and how the sacrifice and the
grace of Jesus Christ covers it and
gives us the opportunity to live in your
light. God, continue to settle the other
things that cause an unrest and a
brokenness and discomfort in our life.
Lord, let us give those to you that you
can settle as the great healer, as the
great king, as the one who reigns over
all. But Lord, we not only ask that you
settle our accounts, but this also
pushes to us now to action of how do we
treat other people? How do we live this
out? And I after this servant is
forgiven, we see the hypocrisy is he
doesn't do the same thing to another
servant. And in here as we continue in
verse 29,
the other servant asks the servant who
has just been forgiven by the king. He
says, "Be patient with me." He says,
"But he wasn't willing."
And this Sunday, as we're going to talk
about forgiveness, you can't forgive
until you are willing to start to be
patient with the hurting people around
you. And this is where I want us just to
begin to plant the seed in our heart.
Now, there are people who have
legitimately hurt us that are hard to
forgive. But maybe the first step is we
need to be patient in seeing them and
not writing them off. So, we are
grateful and we thank God that he has
settled our accounts. But here's the
next prayer prompt. This prompt of
preparing our hearts for action
is Lord, let me be willing to be patient
with blank.
Lord, let me be willing to be patient
with blank. Name people specifically
that maybe you are impatient with. Maybe
it's your kids, maybe it's your spouse,
maybe it's a someone who you works for
you or someone you work for. Who do you
need to be willing to be patient with
that you can see as God sees them and it
can open the door and crack the door to
be able to forgive them as our father
forgives us? Just take some time, name
people that you can be willing to be
patient with that God soften your heart.
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Lord, give us a willing heart,
a willing heart that is patient with
those around us. Cuz Lord, you are
patient. You are slow to anger.
You come to the table and you seek us
out to settle accounts.
God, you don't rush to judgment even
though we deserve it. You don't judge us
in the middle of our sin even though we
deserve it. Instead, you are patient
with us and you're patient with this
generation, hoping that all come to a
saving knowledge of you.
Lord, let us be willing to have that
heart
to be patient with the ones around us,
especially those that have hurt us. And
Lord, let it put in our heart a seed
that can lead to true forgiveness of the
people around us. God, we thank you for
this time. Please prepare our hearts as
we gather together on Sunday to praise
the fact that you have settled our
accounts and then Lord to go out and
settle the accounts with the people that
are in our spheres of influence. God, we
thank you for all this and we lift it up
in Jesus' name. Amen.
Thank you for joining us today. Can't
wait to dive in to this sermon, to pray
through it this Sunday, to praise
through it, to preach through it, so
that we can put it into practice this
week and beyond. We'll see you Sunday.
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