In our exploration of Job chapters 11-14, we engage with the intense dialogue between Job and his friend Zofar, who represents a more confrontational approach to Job's suffering. Zofar challenges Job's understanding of his situation, asserting that Job's misfortunes are a result of his own shortcomings. We see Zofar's harshness as he urges Job to repent and redirect his heart towards God, emphasizing the importance of humility and prayer. This conversation serves as a reflection on how we respond to suffering and the role of friends in our lives, particularly those who speak hard truths.
As we delve deeper, we witness Job's struggle with his circumstances and his evolving perspective. Initially desiring a mediator to plead his case before God, Job ultimately expresses a desire to speak directly to the Almighty. This shift signifies growth in Job's faith, even amidst his despair. The sermon encourages us to confront our own pessimism and recognize that, like Job, we can redirect our hearts towards God, trusting in His control over our lives. Through prayer and humility, we can find hope and healing, even in our darkest moments.
Key Takeaways
Zofar's approach to Job highlights the importance of speaking hard truths to friends, even when it feels uncomfortable.
Job's journey from seeking a mediator to wanting to speak directly to God illustrates his growth in faith amidst suffering.
Redirecting our hearts towards God through prayer can help alleviate the weight of pessimism and despair we carry in difficult times.
The imagery of Job's 'backpack' serves as a metaphor for the burdens we carry; we must be intentional about what we allow to weigh us down.
Even in our darkest moments, God is in control and hears our prayers, offering hope and restoration.
Scripture References
Job 11Job 12Job 13Job 14Psalm 102
Discussion Questions
What does Zofar's harshness teach us about the role of friends during difficult times?
How can we balance speaking truth with compassion when supporting someone in pain?
In what ways have you experienced growth in your faith during challenging circumstances?
What are some 'ashes' in your life that you need to bring before God in prayer?
How can we redirect our hearts towards God when we feel overwhelmed by pessimism?
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Thanks.
Welcome to Cross Church. My name is
Tyler and I serve as campus pastor right
here at Cross Church Elmarrage. And I
want to welcome you to service today.
Before we get started, I want to make
you aware of a couple of ways that you
can connect with us today. The first, if
you have a phone with you, you can send
a text message with the word crossurch
no space to the number 9400.
Or if you'd like to use the cards that
are in the seat back in front of you,
we've got three cards that'll direct you
on you can connect with us. The first is
the new card. If you're new to Cross
Church over the last few weeks, we would
love to connect with you. Take some time
to fill out that card during our service
today and drop it in one of the black
boxes and then we'll follow up with you
this week with some more information.
The next card is the next card. Take
some time to use that card if you're
interested in taking some next steps in
your faith journey. Things like baptism,
joining a group, or even serving. And
then lastly, and I believe most
importantly, is the prayer card. And I
want to guarantee you that if you take
time today to fill out that prayer card,
all of those come to me and I get to
pray over each of them individually. So
if you've got things big or small going
on in your life, please feel free to
share those with us. We'd be happy to
pray over them. Hey, as we get prepared
for some God-honoring worship, I want to
encourage you to go into service today
with an expectant spirit. We know that
God will do big things in our midst, and
so I want to encourage you to enter this
time with an expectant spirit. Now,
let's get prepared for some God.
Hey, good morning cross church. Let's
all stand to our feet. Let's all give
our God praise because he has given us
freedom because of Christ
on the cross. So, this is a new song,
[music] but I wanted to introduce it to
you guys.
I'm shaking off the heaviness.
I'm dancing out [singing and music] of
my regret.
I'm throwing caution to the wind.
No, I [singing and music] am not ashamed
to praise like this. Some say it's
foolishness, [music and singing]
but I say it's worth the risk.
I'm giving you
though I [music] am not ashamed to break
my
Where are [music] those dreams that tell
me I'm free? I'm free. I'm free. I'm
free. My sin is gone. How can it be?
[music]
I'm [singing] free. I'm free. I'm free.
I'm free. Look at what the Lord has
[music] done. I'm never going back to
the way I was. I'll sing. I'll dance.
I'll be I'm free. [music and singing]
I'm free. Thank God I'm free.
I've got a friend that never quit.
[music]
No one loves as good as this.
And I don't care [singing] what anyone
says.
I'll never [music] be ashamed to praise
thy
are those that
I'm free. I'm free. I'm [music] free.
I'm free. My sin is gone. I can't. I'm
free. I'm free. I'm free. I'm free. Look
[music] at what the Lord has done. I'm
never going [singing] back to the way I
was. I'll sing. I'll dance cuz I'll be
I'm free. I'll reach. Thank [music] God
I'm free. You took the cross and you
broke [singing] your body.
You [music] shed your blood. Now the s
can.
My debt is paid [music] and my record is
I couldn't do it so you did it [singing]
for me. You took the cross and you broke
your [music] body.
You shed your blood. When I was in a
cancer,
my debt is paid [music] and my record is
clean. I couldn't do it, so you did. You
[music] took the [singing] cross. You
took the cross and you broke.
>> You shed your blood.
>> You shed your blood.
My pain.
>> I couldn't do it.
>> I couldn't [music] do it, so you did it
for me.
>> You think I can do it?
>> I couldn't do it, so you did it for me.
>> You think I can do it?
So you did it for
you.
>> So [music] you did it for where are
those chains that tell me I'm free.
[music] I'm free. I'm free. [singing]
I'm free. My sin is gone now.
I'm free. I'm free. I'm free. I'm
[music] free. Look at what the Lord
[singing] has done. I'm never going back
to the way I was. I'll sing and I'll
dance. Yes, I'll be I'm free. I'm free
to thank God. You took [music] the
cross. You took the cross and you broke
your body.
You shed your blood. Now the sinner
can't see. My de is paid. And my record
is I couldn't do it. [music] So you did.
You
took the cross.
You shed [music] your blood.
>> You shed your blood.
My name [music]
is
>> I couldn't do it. So you did it for
I couldn't do it. So you did [music] it
for
you.
>> I couldn't do it like you did it.
I couldn't do it.
Look at what the [music] Lord has done.
I'm never going back to the way I
[music] look at what the Lord has done.
I'm never going back to the way. Oh, I
love [music] you what the Lord Look at
what the Lord has done. I'm never going
[music] back to the way. I love you with
the Lord. [singing]
I love you what [music] the Lord has
done.
>> [music]
>> Yeah, let's give him some praise. We are
free because of him. We see what he has
done for us. And there [music] is no one
like our God who would give up his one
and only son for us so that we may have
eternal life.
Sing this out.
[music]
>> [singing]
>> the fullness of God
in mercy.
showed us [music and singing]
your heart,
your love,
your love [music and singing] poured out
for all
[singing and music]
the Lord our God.
You've been faithful every day
[music and singing] of my life.
>> [music]
>> I could search [singing] the world and
find
another like you.
Nothing like you.
[music]
You invite us [singing] to go. Your body
broken.
Your blood [singing and music] was
enough.
This love upon the [music] cross.
Oh, [singing]
this [music] love poured out for us.
There is no one [singing] like [music]
the Lord our God.
You've been [music and singing] faithful
every day of my life.
I [music] could [singing] search the
world and never
find
another like [singing and music]
you.
Another like you.
[music]
There is no one [singing] like the Lord
our God. [music]
You've [singing] been faithful every day
of my life.
I could [music and singing] search the
world and never
find
another [singing] like you.
like you
[music]
like
the lamb
is the king
who reigns [singing]
forever. Forever
sitting on the throne
high above [singing] it all.
Everyone will know
you're [singing and music]
like no other.
Worthy is the lamb.
Worthy is [music and singing] the king.
Worthy is the one
who reigns forever. [singing]
Seated on the throne,
high above [music and singing] it all.
Everyone will know
you're like [singing]
no other.
Worthy is a [music] man.
Worthy is the king.
[music]
Worthy [singing] is the one
who reigns [music] forever.
seated on the throne. [singing]
[music] I above it all.
Everyone will know.
You're like no other.
[music]
There is no one like the Lord our God.
[singing and music]
And you've been faithful every day of my
life. [music and singing]
I could search the world [singing] and
never
find [music]
another like you.
Another like [music]
you.
There is [music] no one like the Lord
our [singing] God.
You've been [music] faithful every
[singing] day of my life.
[music] And I could search [singing] the
world and never
find
another like [music]
you.
Like you
[music]
like you.
Like you
[music]
like you.
There is [singing] no one like the Lord
our God.
You've [singing] been faithful every
[music] day of my life.
>> I could search [singing and music] the
world and
find
another. [singing and music]
I could [singing] search [music] the
world and never
find
another like [singing] you
[music]
like.
>> Amen. As you grab a seat, we're going to
enter into a time of prayer today. I'll
direct your attention today to Psalm
102. And so, if you want to flip there
and join me, be looking at three
different sections of Psalm 102. And I
love what we find from the psalmist in
Psalm 102 that is so um heavy but
hopeful is the best way to describe this
psalm. And Psalm 102 offers us I think
three really unique perspectives.
And the first thing we actually find in
the first few verses of Psalm 102. In
Psalm 102 verse one the psalmist opens
with uh a bit of thanksgiving bit of
context actually as a matter of fact.
And so in Psalm 102 beginning of verse
one here's what we see.
Lord, hear my prayer.
Let my cry for help come before you.
Don't hide your face from me in my day
of trouble. Listen closely to me. Answer
me quickly when I call. Uh it's the
psalmist offering this honest prayer,
but one that actually gives us a great
measure of hope because it is one that
we know without a doubt because of the
context of scripture is true. As a
matter of fact, we know for a fact that
God does hear our prayers. Amen. God
hears our prayers. And that's a matter
of hope because 102:es 1 and two give us
this psalmist perspective saying, "God,
simply hear my prayer." And so, as we
pray individually today, we're going to
start and I want to ask you to start
focused on a simple prayer of gratitude.
And so, in this moment, I just want you
to thank God for the fact that he hears
our prayers. So let's pray through that
now.
The second section of this psalm I want
to bring to your attention is found in
Psalm 102 beginning in verse 8. Says
these words, "My enemies taunt me all
day long. They ridicule and use my name
as a curse. I eat ashes like bread and
mingle my drinks with tears." As we read
Psalm 102, here's what we find to be
true. Some of us are much like Job and
are much like the Psalmist. We find
ourselves in difficult moments where we
are eating ashes like bread. And this is
such vivid imagery, but it reveals to us
that the psalmist is going through a
heavy dark moment. In this portion of
prayer, I simply want to ask you to
think about what your ashes are. What is
the thing that you're holding on to
that's heavy, that's dark, that's
difficult, that you feel like you can't
do it all by yourself? Maybe it's the
test results that you've been waiting
for and received but just aren't what
you wanted or expected. Maybe it's as
you continue and think through it, maybe
it's the thing that you've been
wrestling with that's so heavy and
difficult, a relationship that's ending,
a season that's over, whatever the case
may be. What are the ashes that you are
eating right now like bread? And as you
think about that, in this second prayer
prompt, I'm going to ask you to take all
of those things before God, the God who
hears us and answers our prayers. Let's
take this to him now. Let's pray through
those things.
The last portion of this psalm that
we'll read for today begins in verse 15.
And the psalmist changes tone from
talking about the difficulty and the
sorrow. The psalmist switches in 102
vers15 to saying this. Then the nations
will fear the name of the Lord and the
kings of the earth your glory.
For the Lord will rebuild Zion. He will
appear in his glory. And as a matter of
fact, verse 17 would go on to say this.
He will pay attention to the prayer of
the destitute. Amen. God pays attention
to our prayers and he will not despise
their prayer. As you look at this psalm
today, this final section of the psalm,
here's the tone we're going to take in
this last psalm. And I'm actually going
to spend time praying over us as a
church. Simply that you and I would
understand and be thankful for the fact
that God is in control. That God is in
control. That he hears our prayers. He's
on his throne and knows exactly what
he's doing. So, let's gather together
and pray for that now. God, we come
before you, God, as a church. And we
simply thank you for the fact that as
your word says here in Psalm 102 that
you are in control, God. We thank you
for the fact that you hear our prayers.
God, we thank you for the fact that
while you hold the galaxies and the
stars together, you also care for us and
what's going on in our lives. God, as we
brought things to you today, we pray
that you would move powerfully in each
of our situations and that you would get
all the glory in each of our lives. God,
we pray all this in your name. Amen.
Let's stand as we continue in worship.
[music]
[singing]
knew [singing]
[music]
nothing like I thought you were better.
What a god. What a
god. What a
What God
[music and singing] shows
[music and singing]
for the
[music]
overcome [singing]
the sinner.
Oh, you say,
"No, it's not. [music] No, it's not."
You say, "No, it's not. No, it's not."
What [music] a God. What a God.
Oh, what a God. [music and singing] What
a God.
Oh,
what a God. What a God. [music]
Oh, who you are. What a god. What a god.
[music]
[music] The highest place I reached is
at your feet. And I've done it all. If
the best thing that I've seen is your
glory. [singing]
And I've seen it all.
Your love has changed my life forever.
satisfy [music and singing]
God. You are my everything.
If the highest place [music] I reached
is at your [singing] feet and I've done
it all. If the best thing that I've seen
is [music and singing] your glory. And
I've seen it all.
Your love has changed my life. Forever
[music]
satisfied. [singing]
God, you are [music] my air. everything
cuz one word is [music and singing] the
only thing you speak then I've heard it
all
your heart and never see your end I
still have it all
no treasure is mine [music] could ever s
my you [music and singing] are my
oh God [music]
you [singing] are You are my
You are my
Let [music] it go. Let it go.
What a god. [music]
What a god.
Oh,
[music] what a god. What a god.
You are [music]
a god. What a god.
>> [music]
>> The highest place I reached is at your
feet. And I've done it all. And the best
thing that I've [music] seen is your
glory. [singing]
And I see it all.
Your [music] love has changed my life
forever.
You are my
wonder. [music]
[music]
[singing]
I still had it all. No treasure of
[music] this life could ever satisfy
God. You [music and singing] are my
everything.
You [music and singing] are my
everything.
You are my everything. [music]
Yes. God, you [singing]
are my everything.
God, you are my everything.
Oh God, [music]
you are [singing] my everything.
Yes God, you [music and singing] are my
everything.
[music]
>> Good morning, Cross Church. What a God
indeed.
Brought us some pretty good weather over
the last day or two, right?
>> Yep. I'm That's a blessing in itself
right there. Got a little rain. Got some
haboos going on, whatever that's called.
Little tumble weeds tumbling. It's been
a good pretty couple days, but I want to
get right to it because we do have a lot
of announcements. A lot of amazing
things happening in the Cross Church
Collective. First, we're going to look
at those cards in your seatback. If you
haven't been here or you're just coming
here for the first, second, or third
time, I want you to fill out that new
card. Very important card. Want to get
to know you, where you come from, how
you heard about us, and what you're all
about. just put in that black box in the
back. The second one is the next card.
If you're looking to serve, get on the
worship team, greet some people, hang
out with the kids. We could use your
help. It'd be awesome to have you
around. Please fill out the card for the
next card and put it in the black box as
well. Lastly is the prayer card, which
is the most important card that we do
talk about. Just like Pastor Tyler spoke
about the Psalms today, God does hear
our prayers. And if we come together as
a collective, we put our prayers down on
those cards. We do pray over them and
God hears groups of prayers and he never
never misses. So that's an important
one. Please fill that out, put it in the
black box and uh we'd love to see what
you're all about. So let's get to the
four announcements that we do have
today. First one is going to be the
pastor or the pizza with the pastor.
It's happening next weekend after the
second service. We talk about this a
lot, but it can't be overstated how
important it is to get in there with
speaking directly to Pastor Tyler so we
can tell you what we're all about here,
where we're heading to make Jesus known,
and what the collective of Cross Church
is all about so we can spread that word
as often as possible. Hit that QR code
to get yourself scheduled for that so
that you can get some pizza that day.
Second is going to be the uh we care
weekend which is actually on Friday and
Saturday. So the 23rd and 24th. That
Friday we're going to meet at uh Bill
Gentry Park. We're going to be handing
out some flyers. We're going to talk
about cross church. We're going to help
out in the community. We're going to
make Jesus known that way. And on the
24th we're going to meet up at um Daart
High School. We're building out and
helping with the teachers lounge to help
regenerate that thing over there. We
need as much help as we can get.
However, we have had a big turnout so
far with signups. So, let's keep that
going. Let's get as many people out
there as we can because we want to have
a big turnout to help the community.
Uh sec or the third one is going to be
our let me see which one is that? The
asbes. That's right. So, the spies is
happening on November 1st. extremely
important, awesome, super exciting event
because we're going to be honoring our
volunteers, the people that serve around
the Cross Church Collective. We're going
to come together um and basically give
out awards showing our appreciation for
everything everybody's been doing. We're
going to have dinner for for all the
volunteers. We're going to have um kids
care for kids up to 12 years old. So,
there's no excuses not to come. We're
going to have little events. It's going
to be a really great time. All right, so
show up for that. Make sure you get
registered. It's going to have all the
explanations of what I just said and
more on the registration. We want to
have some food for you. All right, our
last announcement is a really cool one.
It's going to be our fall fest happening
on the 8th of November. That's going to
have a food truck for the kids. Uh a
photo booth, do some silly photos. Let's
get you up on the internet so you could
look ridiculous like we all have
multiple times on the internet, I'm
sure. And it's even going to have like a
train ride situation. Pastor Tai didn't
explain this really well to me. So, I'm
going to assume we're building out a
long train track around all the city of
Elmarrage.
No. Okay. Probably something small. Sign
a waiver. I don't know. But it should be
a really good time. Um, lots of fun
stuff happening. Hopefully, it'll be
fall weather by November 8th. Um, but
it's actually pretty good right now. I
don't want to complain. So, but all
these events, all this amazing thing
happening in the Cross Church
Collective, it only happens because of
the generosity in this room, the
generosity around the Cross Church
Collective. And I just want I can't
overstate how important you are for us
expanding and helping get out into the
world and make Jesus known. So, I'm
going to give you about 30 seconds
behind me. If it if the Lord puts it on
your heart to give for these events and
these moments, these times out there in
the world to to make Jesus known, that
is an amazing thing. And if you've
already given, please pray for anybody
around you to do the same. Thank you.
Well, hey, good morning and welcome to
Cross Church. My name is Tyler. If we
haven't got a chance to meet yet, I
would love to connect with you. I'll be
outside underneath the awning after
service. So, feel free to swing by there
and would love to connect with you there
after service. Hey, if you got a Bible
today, we are going to use it. So, go
ahead and break that thing out. We'll be
in Job chapter 11 to begin. Job chapter
11. As you make your way there, I want
to offer you a little bit of context for
how we find ourselves in Job chapter 11.
in Job chapter 11. We're actually in our
fifth week of our series preaching
through the book of Job. And the first
10 chapters have been good. They've been
heavy and they've been a lot of activity
happening throughout the early section
of Job. Uh so if you're joining us maybe
for the first time or you're just kind
of catching up. Here's the deal. Uh in
Job chapter 1, God and Satan have a
conversation. God grants Satan
permission to test Job knowing that Job
will stand through the temptation. he'll
be able to survive it and not give in.
And so God grants Satan permission to do
that. The only rule is that Satan can't
take Job's life. And so he's got this
situation going on. And so that's
exactly what Satan does. He takes
everything from Job except his life. And
then in Job chapter 2, beginning in
verse 10 through 14, Job's friends hear
about this and then they make a plan to
come to him. They go to Job. They gather
with him for seven days and nights. They
don't say a single word. They simply sit
with Job.
And then Job begins to lament. And he
goes back and forth with each of his
friends. And today we're going to find
ourselves in the first iteration of
Job's conversation with his third
friend, Zofar, which quite names these
these friends have. These are quite
incredible names, right? Zofar. So many
others that are good. Um, so Zofar is
who we're going to find ourselves with
today. But before we jump into that, I
want to offer you a little bit of an
update on what's happening
internationally with Cross Church.
Pretty excited about this. You'll see
some pictures um show up here. Uh couple
months ago, we had a team from Cross
Church that went to uh the Philippines.
We have two locations of Cross Church in
the Philippines. One in Cebu City and
one on the island of Kennet. And what
you're seeing right here is a sports
tournament for a local sport there um
where Pastor Chad was able to share the
gospel. Here's what's really incredible.
what God is doing through the cross
church collective isn't just happening
here. It's happening halfway around the
world as well. In the uh gospel
presentation he did, there were actually
eight people who stood up, received
Christ, and were baptized just a few
hours later internationally. So, we're
super thankful for that. Yes, that's
worth clapping about. Absolutely. What I
love about that is a reminder that God's
on the move halfway around the world.
Uh, one of the cool things I will tell
you by way of announcement is that we're
actually already planning now for a trip
that'll happen next Labor Day. And so if
you're interested, if stuff like that is
uh up your alley and if God's kind of
wired you towards sports and kind of the
international work that we're doing
there, um, we would love for you to join
us for a trip. You have two things you
can be doing between now and then.
Number one, financially preparing, and
number two, make sure that your passport
is up to date and ready to go. Does that
sound good? Awesome. That's the
important stuff. All right. Well, we'll
find ourselves today in Job chapter 11.
Job chapter 11, we have this guy named
Zofar. He's the third friend. And here's
what we need to know about Zofar.
He's the third friend. The first two
told Job honest truths, the things that
he needed to hear, but they did so with
a touch of kindness.
Just be honest. Zofar is known out of
the group of friends that Job has as the
most harsh and the least empathetic.
Uh, this is the friend that pulls no
punches and tells you exactly what you
need to hear. Anybody got a friend like
that? Is that any of you? Some of you
are like, "That's me." Anybody? You're
that friend? You're the one that just
you absolutely tell it how it is. That's
good. All right, I'm judging you. Um,
no, but here's the deal. Um, we have
this third and final friend, Zofar. And
here's what he does. We're going to read
in uh Job 11, beginning in verse one.
Here's what we see.
Then Zofar replied, "Should this
abundance of words go unanswered and
such a talker be acquitted? Should your
babbling put others to silence so that
you can keep on ridiculing with no one
to humiliate you? You have said my
teaching is sound and I am pure in your
sight." And we'll take a timeout there
before we continue reading in this text.
Can we just be honest though? Zofar,
it's pretty harsh.
Now, some of this may be lost in
translation, but he basically looks at
Job and says, "Are you done yet? Because
somebody needs to put you in your place,
right? Somebody needs to tell you like
it is." And that's exactly what Zofar is
going to go on to do. Here's what
happens later in this. We actually see
what Zofar is going to mention in his
critique of Job and his uh pity party,
if you will. In chapter 11 verse4 he
says you have said my teaching is sound
and I'm pure in your sight. So far it's
going to actually push back on that. One
of the things that we found to be true
as we read through this text
and as we look at daily life is some of
the most important friends that you and
I have are the ones that will tell us
the honest truth.
The ones that will tell us when we're
doing something dumb.
They will tell us when we need to hear
the truth. And that's exactly what Zofar
is going to do. He's going to say, "You
say that you're pure in God's sight, but
he's gonna press in on that and say, are
are you sure about that? Are are you
really sure that you are pure in God's
sight?" And so, we're going to divide
today's talk into two specific pieces.
The first is this. We're going to see
what Zofar offers and then we'll switch
over to see what Job answers with in
terms of his reply. And so, Zofar offers
a few different words. The first one is
he offers a word here of pacing. He
offers a word of pacing. Now when I say
the word pacing, often times we think
about slowing [snorts] down, getting
onto a pace that's consistent and
sustainable. Think about running or
different things of that nature. What
pacing means, but actually Zofar picks
up the pace. He says, "It's been too
nice, too slow, too kind. You need to
hear the truth and you need to hear it
now. you're not as good as you think you
are. He goes and he pushes right in on
this. He's listened plenty. Now, what I
need you to know is this. Zofar does
this in context. He doesn't show up to
Job and the first word out of his mouth
is, "All right, are you done yet?
Because somebody needs to humble you."
He doesn't go in to 100% this moment
right here. He starts by listening. He
waits for the other two friends to go.
But when it's his time, he has been
patient enough and he begins by telling
the truth exactly the way that Job needs
to hear it. One of the things I find
interesting about this is this reveals
that most friend groups have different
types of people in them. Um I'll
illustrate it to you this way. Um if
you've ever been in a group text with
your friends, you've seen their
personalities play out. All right. Um so
I'm going to take a little poll to see
which of the friends you are in a group
text with friends. Anybody here? you're
the lurker. You won't say anything like
a message. You'll just sit back in the
back and just like that's you. Okay,
good. Good to know. Um, now in most
friend groups, you'll have the lurker.
But in most friend groups, you're also
going to have the person who only
responds with gifts. Anybody? That's
you. That's 100% me. I'm not going to
say anything serious whatsoever. I'm
going to crack a joke and respond with
an image every single time. Right?
That's me and that's my role. Uh,
anybody, you're the oversharer in the
group text. You're just the one who like
stop. People are like, "Shh, enough. All
right, we're going to mute you." Right?
Um, we're all have our different
personalities and we see it play out in
different group settings. Well, here in
this setting, Zofar looks at the others
and says, "You've been the ones who have
said the nice thing. You've been kind.
You've done all that, but Job needs the
truth. He needs to hear it straight."
And so he offers a word of pacing by
saying, ' Let's get to this already. The
second thing he does is he offers a word
of priority.
Let me read it to you. In verse 5, he
says this, "But if only God would speak
and open his lips against you, he would
show you the secrets of wisdom. For true
wisdom has two sides."
Now then, that God has chosen to
overlook some of your iniquity. That's
what we were talking about earlier. He's
saying God has overlooked some of your
iniquity. And in verse 7, he says, "Can
you fathom the depths of God or discover
the limits of the Almighty?" He says,
"Whoa, whoa, whoa. Take a moment of
priority here. Understand what's going
on in the big picture." He's saying God
is on the move. God is big. As a matter
of fact, if you've been with us for some
time now, you know that that's been one
of the themes that Job has used and his
friends as well is this idea that God is
so big. As a matter of fact, God would
say or Job would say that God is so big,
who can even communicate with him.
That's the reason he goes on to ask for
a mediator over in uh the last
interaction that we saw. He asked for a
mediator because he god's so big. And
one of the things it reminds me of is it
brings my attention back to Pastor Louie
Gigglio who offers uh some of the
scientific approaches to how big God is.
He uses this illustration where he talks
about a golf ball-sized earth. Uh if
you've ever held a golf ball in your
hand, you know that it's pretty small.
And he tells us this scientific fact. He
says if Earth were scaled down to the
size of a golf ball, here's how big our
galaxy, solar system, all that stuff is.
If Earth were the size of a golf ball,
the nearest star would be over 600 miles
away.
It's a reminder that you and I are so
small. As a matter of fact, he would go
on to say in the same talk this quote.
He would say, "I'm not trying to make
you feel small, but he would say this,
I'm trying to help you see that you are
small so that you can see how big God
is." Let me just remind you today
that same God who holds all of the
galaxies and stars in place knows your
name and cares about you.
Full stop.
That God cares about us. So when we talk
about prayer and taking things to God in
prayer, he does care for us. Although
he's got all this going on, he cares for
the things that are going on in our
lives. And so we see this word of
priority. But we also see a very
important shift in Zofar's conversation
when he talks about a word of
positioning. He says it in verse 13, as
for you. That's a highlight circle
underlined moment. Verse 13, as for you.
Here's what Zofar says. He's offered Job
all this word of context and he's eased
into it.
But he says, "Here's what you need to
fix." Verse 13, "As for you, if you
redirect your heart and spread out your
hands to him in prayer, if there is
iniquity in your hand, remove it and
don't allow injustice to dwell in your
tents, then you will hold your head
high, free from fault. You will be
firmly established and unafraid. For you
will forget your suffering, recalling it
only as water that has flowed by. Your
life will be brighter than the noon day.
Its darkness will be like morning. You
see, check this out. One chapter before
this, Job has said this phrase that
everything feels like darkness. He says
even the light feels like darkness. This
is all bad. He says, but Zofar flips the
script and says, yeah, it looks pretty
bad today. It looks difficult and dark
and hopeless.
But
he says, "If you redirect your heart and
go to God in prayer, all of this other
stuff will happen. God will do what only
God can do if we trust him to do it."
And as a matter of fact, here what we're
reminded of is that Zofar speaks
directly to Job's push back. He says,
"Yeah, it feels like darkness, sure, but
if you redirect your heart and go to God
in prayer, your life will be brighter
than the noon day. That darkness you
spoke of, Job says its darkness will be
like the morning. It will be full of
light. We find hope in this. As a matter
of fact, it says such in verse 18, you
will be confident. So far says, because
there is hope and you will look
carefully about and lie down in safety.
You see, after Job has thrown his pity
party and just gotten completely focused
in all of the pessimism of this, what we
find is that Zofar says, "If you will
redirect your heart,
this can all change." The hope that's
found in Zofar's redirect or correction
is that no matter what the current
circumstances are, the end can be good.
We haven't even began to touch on the
reality of what God's going to do at the
very end of the book of Job where he
restores Job to heights he had never
even been at before. Not to mention all
of that, Job's friends here are saying,
"Hey buddy,
turn back to God. He will move
powerfully." And so for us, the reminder
here is that we need to kneel before the
God of the heavens and redirect our
hearts towards him, which is a word that
Job really needed because what does Job
do in this story? Well, here's what
happens if we continue in Job 12. Job
begins his conversation in Job 12:1.
Then Job answered, "No doubt you are the
people and wisdom will die with you, but
I also have a mind like you. I am not
inferior to you. Who doesn't know the
things you're talking about?" And it's
in this first verse of Job's interaction
with Zofar that we see the turn and the
transition and we see Job answer with a
word of passive sarcasm. Anybody here
today feel like you are fluent in
sarcasm? Anybody? Yep. Here's what we
know to be true, unfortunately, about
words of sarcasm. They are often, if not
always,
unhealthy in the way that we use them.
They're sort of this way that we respond
that doesn't always say the thing that
we mean. And what we find here is Job
answers by saying, "Surely you're the
people and wisdom will die with you. You
are the most wise people." He says, "But
I'm not inferior to you."
He's saying, "I'm smart, too." He goes
on to say, "You're saying things that
are obvious who doesn't know the things
that you're talking about. Everyone
knows that God's big and that God will
answer your prayers if you turn your
heart to all these different things."
And he begins to do this. But what we
find here is very important is it
reveals that Job is not doing well. And
what we find in this is his friends are
pushing back against him pretty
consistently. and he's reacting with
this sort of emotional reaction which is
completely understandable. Can we just
be honest here? Nobody blames Job for
being in a bad place.
It's understood. All of the difficult
things that we've covered that have
happened to him have led him to this
place. And so he gets this sort of
passive sarcasm. But what what happens
here is he doesn't stay in this moment
of being passive. He flips to a portion
of the text where he begins to push back
specifically against Zofar. In chapter
13:1, he continues the same language and
Job says, "Look, my eyes have seen all
this. My ears have heard and understood
it. Everything you know, I also know. I
am not inferior to you." And so, it's in
this moment where he begins to push
back. He says, "I know what you've said,
but he says, I know that, too." And then
what does he do? He doesn't stop there.
He says in verse three something that we
might miss if we just read it
individually. In chapter 13:3 it says
this, "Yet I prefer to speak to the
Almighty and argue my case before God."
You see, check this out. What happened
one interaction ago is Job is going back
and forth with a friend saying, "Man, I
just need someone to go between me and
God. I need a mediator because God
doesn't hear me." And actually what's
happening is Job is growing. There's
some hope in the midst of this. Even in
the middle of his pity party, Job is
growing in his faith because he goes
from wanting a mediator to go in between
him and God to saying in chapter 13:3,
"I prefer to speak to the Almighty." He
said, "I want to go directly to God and
not through you." He's growing. He's
making progress. In his push back, we
see his growth. But the third thing that
we see Job answer with is a word of
pity. His
pity party continues. The invitations
have been sent. The balloons are out.
And he continues verse six by saying,
"Hear now my argument and listen to my
defense." He He says to his friend who's
given him the honest truth, pulled no
punches, who's gone right after him. He
says, "But but listen to my excuses."
I've heard it often said that excuses
are like buttholes. Everyone has one and
they all stink. Yeah, that's it. That's
the excuse that we're getting here from
Zofhar. He he talks to Job, but Job just
pushes back. He says, "Just hear my
argument, but I have a reason. I know
there's there's stuff that's going on in
my life." Zofar didn't handle any of
that. He says, "You need to turn back to
God." As if Job hasn't been spewing his
pity party for 10 chapters now.
He's just continually in this cycle. And
what it's led to is that Job actually
answers in chapter 13 verse 15 with a
word of pessimism. Here's what he says.
Even if he kills me, I will hope in him.
Which is such a conflicting deep
statement. We could spend, I believe, a
sermon just on that one phrase.
Even if he kills me, I will hope in him.
Job has extreme trust in God, but he's
gotten to the place where he's
pessimistic, saying, "All right, God.
Even if you take my life, I'll trust
you." His expectation for the outcome is
no longer good. It has gone bad. Some of
us find ourselves in this season where
after a difficult job moment, we are
left with just answers to everything of
pessimism.
We only look for what could go wrong or
south or bad.
and we carry with us the weight of
everything that could go wrong. And so
what happens here is Job begins this
word of really it's it's heavy, but it's
a word of pessimism.
And and here's the the version or the
understanding for pessimism that I want
you to have today.
Pessimism is when you and I carry with
us the weight of everything that could
possibly go wrong.
It's when we carry with us the weight of
everything that could possibly go wrong.
A pessimist goes on a road trip and
thinks, "Okay, we could get a flat tire,
the engine could overheat, we could run
out of gas, all the things could happen,
right? They think of all of the
different things." And most often times
the pessimist sees those things where
the optimist sees things that could go
right, the memories that could be made,
the good things that could be happening.
But in this moment, because of his
current condition and circumstances, Job
begins to be pessimistic.
And what happens here is it ultimately
begins to teach us about a backpack.
Now, I don't know if you've ever done
this, but um in middle school and high
school, um some friends and I got to do
some backpacking. Anybody been
backpacking before? Anybody? Okay,
awesome. A few of you, actually. So,
here's what backpacking is if you're not
familiar. It's when you go camping, but
instead of driving into your camp spot
or glamping by taking a camper, all
right, because that's cheating. You take
everything you need for the weekend in
your backpack and you walk in, hike in
to your camp spot, camp for the weekend,
and then come back out. And it's an
incredible experience, and I love
getting to do it. But it taught me a
really important principle. All right.
Um, when I started going backpacking, I
thought I knew everything. All right.
Um, as most high school students do. And
so I thought I knew everything. And so I
would pack my backpack and I put
everything that I needed and wanted for
the weekend in my backpack because I
knew that for a few steps I could carry
an extremely heavy backpack. I got this,
I thought. But here's one of the things
that I learned actually pretty quickly
into this process is I learned that a
heavy backpack for one or two steps was
okay, that I could carry the weight, but
if I was going to make it all the way
into the campsite and back, I needed to
be extremely intentional about what I
put in my backpack because every little
bit of weight mattered. If I could just
encourage you on one spiritual principle
today, it's this. As you look at Job's
reaction, he begins to fill a backpack
with pessimism of all the things that
have gone wrong about God doesn't listen
to him. This has been terrible. I wish I
wasn't born. All of these things Job
says are pessimism that he puts in his
backpack and he tries to carry it all on
his own. Understand this. You and I were
not designed to carry the full weight of
pessimism on our own. We weren't. That's
exactly what Zofar says to Job in
chapter 11:13.
He gives him a way out, a way to put the
backpack down. He says, "As for you, if
you redirect your heart, spread out your
hands to him in prayer.
If there's any iniquity in your hand,
remove it. And don't allow injustice to
dwell in your tents. Then you will hold
your head high, free from fault, and you
will be firmly established and unafraid.
If I could just encourage you today on
one simple thing, it would be this truth
that we need to take the weight of
pessimism of all of the things that
could go wrong or have gone wrong in our
lives, all of the test results, all of
the history and the baggage and the
story that we've walked through and all
of the junk of life. And we need to take
that off in order that we redirect our
hearts back to God, focus on God, and
spread our hearts out to him in prayer.
And when we do so, just as Zofar
promises Job, I promise you, if you will
do those things, God will do what only
he can do in your life.
Let me pray for you this morning.
God, we come before you and I just lift
up to you this church and myself,
God, with this principle in mind,
understanding that as we read the book
of Job, there's so much that goes wrong
and it conditions Job towards pessimism
of seeing everything as wrong. But my
prayer today, God, is that the people in
the room and myself would be a people
that do not get weighed down by
pessimism. rather that we would be the
type of people who would tune our hearts
towards you, God. That we would redirect
our hearts from looking at our
circumstances and all the things that
could go wrong. That we would simply
focus on you. And that a byproduct of
that as we pray is that God, you would
step into our lives, into our
situations, and do what only you can do.
God, my prayer is that you and I
understand, God, as people, we
understand
that you can move powerfully, but that
we have to take off that pessimism in
order to step into what you've called us
to. God, I pray that you move powerfully
in our midst. Pray all this in your
name. Amen. Let's stand as we continue
in worship.
Saints and angels
bow before your throne.
All the elders
cast their crowns [singing] before the
lamb
of God and sing. You're [singing] worthy
of it all.
You're [singing] worthy of it all.
For from you are all things [music] and
to [singing] you are all things.
You deserve the glory.
All the saint
angels
bow before [music]
your throne.
All the earth [singing]
has their crowns before [music] the lamb
of [singing] God and sing. You're worthy
of it [music] all.
You're worthy of it all.
Oh Jesus.
For from you are all [music]
and to you [singing] are all praise.
You deserve the glory.
You're worthy of it all. You're worthy
of it all. [music]
You're worthy of it all. [music]
Oh,
you are all
and [music] you are all
you deserve the glory
day.
Day and night and [singing and music]
day.
Day and night, night and day, let it
srise.
Day and [music and singing] night, night
and day, let it srise.
Day and night, night and day, let in.
Let's lift up our worship.
Day and night, night and day.
[music]
[singing]
Day and night, night and day, let
rise.
Day and night, night and [music] day,
let
day and night, night and day.
You're worthy of it all. [music]
You're worthy of
you are
and to [music] you are all
you deserve glory.
You're worthy. [music]
You're worthy of
You're [music] worthy.
You're worthy of
you are
and to you are
you.
[music]
Thank you guys so much for joining us
today. Hope you guys have a great week.
See you guys next week.
Thank you guys for having me.
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