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When Your People Turn on You

Job 15–21 · Week 6

But I know that myRedeemer lives, and at the end he will stand on the dust.

Job 19:25

The Big
Question

When your people turn on you, will you let them turn you?

Start start here.

By Job 15, the friends who came to comfort Job have stopped listening. Over another round of speeches, Eliphaz, Bildad and Zophar press the same charge: suffering this severe must mean hidden sin. Job calls them miserable comforters (16:2).

Job feels the turn everywhere. In chapter 19 he says his brothers, relatives, guests and closest friends have turned against him. Yet in that same chapter he says the most hopeful thing in the book: my Redeemer lives.

Move move through the text.

  1. Job 15:11, 17

    From His Word to Theirs

    Eliphaz asks whether God's comfort is not enough for Job (15:11), then offers his own: listen to me, and I will tell you what I have seen (15:17). The friends begin speaking for God out of their own experience, and their word slowly takes the place of His.

  2. Job 18:17, 21

    From His Name to Theirs

    Bildad describes a wicked man whose memory perishes and who has no name in the land (18:17), and he ends by calling it the place of one who does not know God (18:21). He never says Job's name, but the label is clear. His people are trying to rename him.

  3. Job 20:4–5, 29

    From His Heart to Theirs

    Zophar appeals to what has been known since ancient times: the joy of the wicked is brief (20:4–5), and ruin is their portion from God (20:29). He presumes to know Job's heart and God's verdict on it, even though God has already called Job blameless (1:8).

Enduring Truth

When your people turn on you, turn to theOne who stood on the dustfor you.

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When Your People Turn on You

Group Discussion & Response

Job 15–21

Talk talk it over.

  1. Job's friends began by sitting with him in silence for seven days (2:13). What do you think turned them from comforters into accusers? Where have you seen that happen?

  2. Read Job 19:13–19. Which losses on Job's list hit closest to home for you? What happens inside a person when the people closest to them turn?

  3. The Big Question asks whether we will let others turn us. In what ways can hurt from people turn our hearts away from God or from His church?

  4. Read Job 19:25 and Matthew 10:22. How does knowing your Redeemer lives and will stand change the way you endure when people turn on you?

Do live it out.

  1. Pray

    Ask God to show you where someone's words have started to define you more than His. Pray Psalm 27:10 back to Him this week.

  2. Praise

    Thank God that your Redeemer lives and will stand at the end. Name one way He has stayed with you when people did not.

  3. Preach

    Read Job 15–21 this week and mark each place a friend speaks for God. Compare their words with what God said about Job in 1:8.

  4. Practice

    Think of someone who feels turned on or left out. Reach out to them this week with a call, a meal, or an invitation to Sunday.

Close in Prayer

Lord, You know what it feels like when people turn. When the people around us speak against us, keep us from letting their words become our name. Help us trust that our Redeemer lives and will stand at the end. Make us friends who stay, and keep our hearts turned toward You, even when others turn away. Thank You that You never leave us or abandon us. In Jesus' name, amen.

Notes & Reflection